NeuroDivergent Relationships Podcast with Kathy Marshack, Ph.D.

The Challenge of Connecting: Navigating Rule-Based Mindsets in Relationships

What happens when rules replace real connection?
In this episode, we explore how rigid, transactional thinking can quietly unravel the emotional fabric of our relationships and communities, especially in neurodivergent partnerships.
Together, we’ll look at the lived experience behind rule-based logic and why it often leads to misunderstanding, frustration, and emotional disconnection.
If you’ve ever felt unseen in a relationship or unsure how to bridge the emotional divide, this conversation is for you. Let’s untangle the patterns and find our way back to true connection.
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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Going Over the Edge: Life With a Partner or Spouse With “Asperger Syndrome- ANNIVERSARY EDITION” 
 
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The View Versus the Experience of Nature's Beauty

Are you truly connected to the world around you, or just passing through?
 
In this episode, we explore the difference between having and belonging, owning a breathtaking view versus truly experiencing the land beneath your feet. Through personal stories of life on the Oregon coast, we’ll unpack what it means to engage with nature, not just admire it from a distance.
 
But this isn’t just about the great outdoors, it’s about relationships, too. How often do we assume that being near someone means we’re connected to them? Neurodivergent partnerships, in particular, highlight the gap between presence and participation.
 
Join me as we dive into what it really means to belong—to a place, to a relationship, and to ourselves.
 
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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Going Over the Edge: Life With a Partner or Spouse With “Asperger Syndrome- ANNIVERSARY EDITION” 
 
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What Makes an Empathic Alpha Woman Powerful and Unique?

What does it mean to be an Empathic Alpha Woman? How can deep empathy shape not just our leadership style, but our entire sense of self?
 
In this episode, I’m exploring the intersection of strength and sensitivity, diving into the power of Radiant Empathy - a bold, intuitive leadership style that redefines what it means to be strong. We’ll discuss:
 
✨ The connection between empathy and effective leadership
✨ The courage it takes to fully embrace your true self
✨ Life lessons from navigating challenges with empathy
 
Join me for a thought-provoking conversation on leading with heart, standing in your power, and owning your unique strength. 
 
It’s time to step into your Radiant Empathy.
 
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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Going Over the Edge: Life With a Partner or Spouse With “Asperger Syndrome- ANNIVERSARY EDITION” 
 
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The Earth is My Home and I Belong to It

Have you ever felt an unshakable connection to a place - like the land itself was calling you home? I know I have. 
 
In this episode, I’m reflecting on the deep, personal ways nature has shaped my sense of belonging.
 
From the rugged beauty of Cape Perpetua to the breathtaking landscapes of Glacier National Park, I’ll share stories of rediscovery and resilience. But what happens when the people closest to us don’t see these places the same way? 
 
We’ll explore the tension between NeuroTypical and NeuroDiverse perspectives on nature—and how our environments can speak to us in ways that words sometimes can’t.
 
Join me for a heartfelt conversation about finding home, trusting our instincts, and embracing the places that remind us who we truly are.
 
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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Going Over the Edge: Life With a Partner or Spouse With “Asperger Syndrome- ANNIVERSARY EDITION” 
 
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Understanding Neighborly Compromise in NeuroDivergent Relationships

Ever feel like you’re speaking a different language in your own relationship? You’re not the only one.
 
In this episode, we’re diving into the complexities of NeuroDivergent dynamics - how they shape everyday interactions, challenge our assumptions, and push us to rethink communication. 
 
Through a real-life story, we’ll explore what happens when perspectives don’t quite align, why setting boundaries is essential (but tricky), and how small moments of understanding can make all the difference.
 
If you’ve ever struggled to connect with someone who sees the world differently, this conversation is for you. Let’s break down the barriers, build a little more empathy, and navigate these relationships with clarity and confidence.
 
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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Going Over the Edge: Life With a Partner or Spouse With “Asperger Syndrome- ANNIVERSARY EDITION” 
 
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The Sweetened Version of Hawaii: Rediscovering Lost Traditions

Let’s uncover the hidden layers of Hawaii’s culture and how commercialization has reshaped its traditions.
 
In this episode, we dive into the personal journey of reconnecting with lost heritage - from the meaning behind puka shell necklaces to the evolution of local luaus. 
 
What happens when authentic cultural practices get replaced by tourist-friendly versions? And how do personal memories intertwine with a history that’s slowly slipping away? 
 
Let’s explore what’s real, what’s been reimagined, and what still lingers beneath the surface.
 
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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Going Over the Edge: Life With a Partner or Spouse With “Asperger Syndrome- ANNIVERSARY EDITION” 
 
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Bianca's Hawaii Adventure: A Mother-Daughter Journey of Perspectives

In this episode, we’ll dive into the contrasting experiences of a mother and her NeuroDiverse daughter during a trip to Hawaii. 
 
What begins as an exciting adventure unfolds into a journey of understanding, as they navigate the challenges of differing perspectives, emotions, and reactions.
 
Through personal reflection, we’ll explore the complexities of NeuroDiverse relationships, the struggle to bridge communication gaps, and the importance of embracing each other’s realities. 
 
Join us as we unpack the lessons learned, the moments of connection, and the ways we can foster deeper empathy in our closest relationships.
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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Going Over the Edge: Life With a Partner or Spouse With “Asperger Syndrome- ANNIVERSARY EDITION” 
 
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He's Not Like Me: Understanding NeuroDiverse Relationships

Relationships thrive on connection—but what happens when two people experience the world in fundamentally different ways?
 
In this insightful discussion, we’ll explore the unique dynamics of NeuroDivergent relationships, uncovering how NeuroTypical and NeuroDiverse individuals process emotions, communicate, and navigate connections. 
 
You’ll gain a deeper understanding of why misunderstandings happen, how empathy plays a crucial role, and why some partners may feel "invisible" in their relationship. Most importantly, we’ll discuss ways to validate each other’s experiences and adapt to emotional needs, creating stronger, more meaningful connections.
 
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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Going Over the Edge: Life With a Partner or Spouse With “Asperger Syndrome- ANNIVERSARY EDITION” 
 
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Understanding Empathy Dysfunction

Empathy is the key to bridging the gap in NeuroDiverse and NeuroTypical relationships—but what happens when empathy itself feels out of sync?
 
In this insightful session, we explore empathy dysfunction and its impact on communication and connection. You'll discover the Empathy Triad—empathy, context, and conversation—and how these elements shape interactions. 
 
We’ll also introduce the 7-Step Interface Protocol, a practical framework designed to help couples navigate their differences with understanding and clarity.
 
Whether you're on the Autism spectrum, a highly empathic individual (EMD Five), or simply looking to strengthen your relationships, this session offers valuable tools to embrace courage, set healthy boundaries, and foster deeper connections.
 
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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Going Over the Edge: Life With a Partner or Spouse With “Asperger Syndrome- ANNIVERSARY EDITION” 
 
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Breaking the Cycle of Abuse: My Personal Journey

Do you ever feel like you're stuck in patterns you didn’t choose? 
 
In this heartfelt episode, we dive deep into the generational cycle of abuse and how it silently shapes our lives and relationships. We’ll explore how emotional wounds can ripple through families, and more importantly—how to break free.
 
You’ll hear personal stories of resilience, learn to recognize toxic cycles and discover practical steps to heal, from embracing self-forgiveness to modeling healthy relationships for the next generation. 
 
This isn’t just about surviving the past—it’s about reclaiming your future with compassion, courage, and hope.
 
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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Going Over the Edge: Life With a Partner or Spouse With “Asperger Syndrome- ANNIVERSARY EDITION” 
 
➡️Follow Dr. Kathy on Facebook
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➡️If you’re looking for resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, check out Unlocking NeuroDivergent Relationships: A Comprehensive Resource Preview