Episodes

5 days ago
5 days ago
Understanding each other can feel impossible when you’re not wired the same way.
This episode dives into the emotional complexity of NeuroDivergent relationships, especially where trauma, identity, and communication collide.
We explore the overlap between PTSD and autism, how language can both connect and divide us, and why honoring differences matters more than ever.
Plus, a first look at the Radiant Empathy video game - an immersive new way to build bridges between cognitive styles.
If you've ever felt like love was present but connection was missing, this one’s for you.
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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Going Over the Edge: Life With a Partner or Spouse With “Asperger Syndrome- ANNIVERSARY EDITION”
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➡️If you’re looking for resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, check out Unlocking NeuroDivergent Relationships, a Comprehensive Resource Preview.

Saturday May 10, 2025
Saturday May 10, 2025
Standing up for the truth can come at a cost, and it’s not always one you see coming.
This episode dives into the emotional and psychological fallout that often follows when you speak up against injustice, especially when power is involved.
From smear campaigns and online harassment to legal threats and professional sabotage, we explore what retaliation really looks like and how to survive it. If you've ever felt like telling the truth made you a target, you're not alone.
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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Going Over the Edge: Life With a Partner or Spouse With “Asperger Syndrome- ANNIVERSARY EDITION”
➡️Follow Dr. Kathy on Facebook
➡️Find Dr. Kathy’s Website Here
➡️If you’re looking for resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, check out Unlocking NeuroDivergent Relationships, a Comprehensive Resource Preview.

Tuesday May 06, 2025
Tuesday May 06, 2025
What happens when a nervous system hits its breaking point, and no one knows how to help?
In this episode, we’re naming what so many silently endure: the “brain on fire” experience.
Whether it's misdiagnosed as mental illness or dismissed altogether, this kind of neurological collapse is real—and often deeply misunderstood, especially in neurodivergent adults.
We’ll talk about:
Autistic burnout vs. mental illness
The emotional cost of being unsupported
What healing actually requires
If you or someone you love has ever struggled to find words for what’s happening inside, this conversation is for you.
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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Going Over the Edge: Life With a Partner or Spouse With “Asperger Syndrome- ANNIVERSARY EDITION”
➡️Follow Dr. Kathy on Facebook
➡️Find Dr. Kathy’s Website Here
➡️If you’re looking for resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, check out Unlocking NeuroDivergent Relationships, a Comprehensive Resource Preview.

Sunday Apr 20, 2025
Sunday Apr 20, 2025
What happens when rules replace real connection?
In this episode, we explore how rigid, transactional thinking can quietly unravel the emotional fabric of our relationships and communities, especially in neurodivergent partnerships.
Together, we’ll look at the lived experience behind rule-based logic and why it often leads to misunderstanding, frustration, and emotional disconnection.
If you’ve ever felt unseen in a relationship or unsure how to bridge the emotional divide, this conversation is for you. Let’s untangle the patterns and find our way back to true connection.
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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Going Over the Edge: Life With a Partner or Spouse With “Asperger Syndrome- ANNIVERSARY EDITION”
➡️Follow Dr. Kathy on Facebook
➡️Find Dr. Kathy’s Website Here
➡️If you’re looking for resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, check out Unlocking NeuroDivergent Relationships, a Comprehensive Resource Preview.

Wednesday Mar 19, 2025
Wednesday Mar 19, 2025
Are you truly connected to the world around you, or just passing through?
In this episode, we explore the difference between having and belonging, owning a breathtaking view versus truly experiencing the land beneath your feet. Through personal stories of life on the Oregon coast, we’ll unpack what it means to engage with nature, not just admire it from a distance.
But this isn’t just about the great outdoors, it’s about relationships, too. How often do we assume that being near someone means we’re connected to them? Neurodivergent partnerships, in particular, highlight the gap between presence and participation.
Join me as we dive into what it really means to belong—to a place, to a relationship, and to ourselves.
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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Going Over the Edge: Life With a Partner or Spouse With “Asperger Syndrome- ANNIVERSARY EDITION”
➡️Follow Dr. Kathy on Facebook
➡️Find Dr. Kathy’s Website Here
➡️If you’re looking for resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, check out Unlocking NeuroDivergent Relationships, a Comprehensive Resource Preview

Wednesday Mar 19, 2025
Wednesday Mar 19, 2025
What does it mean to be an Empathic Alpha Woman? How can deep empathy shape not just our leadership style, but our entire sense of self?
In this episode, I’m exploring the intersection of strength and sensitivity, diving into the power of Radiant Empathy - a bold, intuitive leadership style that redefines what it means to be strong. We’ll discuss:
✨ The connection between empathy and effective leadership
✨ The courage it takes to fully embrace your true self
✨ Life lessons from navigating challenges with empathy
Join me for a thought-provoking conversation on leading with heart, standing in your power, and owning your unique strength.
It’s time to step into your Radiant Empathy.
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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Going Over the Edge: Life With a Partner or Spouse With “Asperger Syndrome- ANNIVERSARY EDITION”
➡️Follow Dr. Kathy on Facebook
➡️Find Dr. Kathy’s Website Here
➡️If you’re looking for resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, check out Unlocking NeuroDivergent Relationships, a Comprehensive Resource Preview

Sunday Mar 09, 2025
Sunday Mar 09, 2025
Have you ever felt an unshakable connection to a place - like the land itself was calling you home? I know I have.
In this episode, I’m reflecting on the deep, personal ways nature has shaped my sense of belonging.
From the rugged beauty of Cape Perpetua to the breathtaking landscapes of Glacier National Park, I’ll share stories of rediscovery and resilience. But what happens when the people closest to us don’t see these places the same way?
We’ll explore the tension between NeuroTypical and NeuroDiverse perspectives on nature—and how our environments can speak to us in ways that words sometimes can’t.
Join me for a heartfelt conversation about finding home, trusting our instincts, and embracing the places that remind us who we truly are.
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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Going Over the Edge: Life With a Partner or Spouse With “Asperger Syndrome- ANNIVERSARY EDITION”
➡️Follow Dr. Kathy on Facebook
➡️Find Dr. Kathy’s Website Here
➡️If you’re looking for resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, check out Unlocking NeuroDivergent Relationships, a Comprehensive Resource Preview.

Friday Mar 07, 2025
Friday Mar 07, 2025
Ever feel like you’re speaking a different language in your own relationship? You’re not the only one.
In this episode, we’re diving into the complexities of NeuroDivergent dynamics - how they shape everyday interactions, challenge our assumptions, and push us to rethink communication.
Through a real-life story, we’ll explore what happens when perspectives don’t quite align, why setting boundaries is essential (but tricky), and how small moments of understanding can make all the difference.
If you’ve ever struggled to connect with someone who sees the world differently, this conversation is for you. Let’s break down the barriers, build a little more empathy, and navigate these relationships with clarity and confidence.
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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Going Over the Edge: Life With a Partner or Spouse With “Asperger Syndrome- ANNIVERSARY EDITION”
➡️Follow Dr. Kathy on Facebook
➡️Find Dr. Kathy’s Website Here
➡️If you’re looking for resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, check out Unlocking NeuroDivergent Relationships, a Comprehensive Resource Preview.

Thursday Feb 27, 2025
Thursday Feb 27, 2025
Let’s uncover the hidden layers of Hawaii’s culture and how commercialization has reshaped its traditions.
In this episode, we dive into the personal journey of reconnecting with lost heritage - from the meaning behind puka shell necklaces to the evolution of local luaus.
What happens when authentic cultural practices get replaced by tourist-friendly versions? And how do personal memories intertwine with a history that’s slowly slipping away?
Let’s explore what’s real, what’s been reimagined, and what still lingers beneath the surface.
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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Going Over the Edge: Life With a Partner or Spouse With “Asperger Syndrome- ANNIVERSARY EDITION”
➡️Follow Dr. Kathy on Facebook
➡️Find Dr. Kathy’s Website Here
➡️If you’re looking for resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, check out Unlocking NeuroDivergent Relationships, a Comprehensive Resource Preview.

Wednesday Feb 12, 2025
Wednesday Feb 12, 2025
In this episode, we’ll dive into the contrasting experiences of a mother and her NeuroDiverse daughter during a trip to Hawaii.
What begins as an exciting adventure unfolds into a journey of understanding, as they navigate the challenges of differing perspectives, emotions, and reactions.
Through personal reflection, we’ll explore the complexities of NeuroDiverse relationships, the struggle to bridge communication gaps, and the importance of embracing each other’s realities.
Join us as we unpack the lessons learned, the moments of connection, and the ways we can foster deeper empathy in our closest relationships.
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Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Going Over the Edge: Life With a Partner or Spouse With “Asperger Syndrome- ANNIVERSARY EDITION”
➡️Follow Dr. Kathy on Facebook
➡️Find Dr. Kathy’s Website Here
➡️If you’re looking for resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, check out Unlocking NeuroDivergent Relationships: A Comprehensive Resource Preview

NeruoDivergent Relationships with Kathy Marshack, Ph.D.
Hi! I’m Dr. Kathy Marshack, a licensed Psychologist and author and specialize in helping my clients who are in complex relationships that are tough to treat with conventional psychotherapy. I have created a unique approach to resolving these complex issues through use of my innovative tools and communication strategies that have helped thousands of people.
I created this podcast to bring my unique approach to these complex relationships to even more people. In this podcast, I will present topics on how to bridge the chasm between NeuroTypical and NeuroDiverse.
If you are in a NeuroDivergent relationship, it is my mission to help you discover the path to sanity, serenity, and more love in your ASD/NT relationship.
If you are in a NeuroDivergent relationship, or expect your spouse is on the spectrum, and are ready to learn innovative communication tools to bridge this gap, and take your relationship in a new direction, then you are in the right place. The discussions in this podcast will lead you on a path to healing, bringing the two diverging worlds together.